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A Red and Gold Christmas Centerpiece With No Open Flame

A Red and Gold Christmas Centerpiece With No Open Flame

A Red and Gold Christmas Centerpiece With No Open FlameAlyssa Givens
Published on: 10/11/2026

Clean counters first, then Christmas. Red flameless candles and a gold Merry Christmas sign on our kitchen island, straight from cleaning day. No real flame with pets and kids.

Christmas Tree Candles Without the Flame, Plus a Giant Bow

Christmas Tree Candles Without the Flame, Plus a Giant Bow

Christmas Tree Candles Without the Flame, Plus a Giant BowAlyssa Givens
Published on: 09/11/2026

Flameless LED candles that clip onto the tree, a 7 ft pink bow topper and a four-scent Christmas candle set, filmed in our house, with my honest take on each.

Christmas Gifts for Kids 6 to 10: Hands-On Picks We Tried at Home

Christmas Gifts for Kids 6 to 10: Hands-On Picks We Tried at Home

Christmas Gifts for Kids 6 to 10: Hands-On Picks We Tried at HomeAlyssa Givens
Published on: 08/11/2026

Five Christmas gifts for kids about 6 to 10 that we filmed at home: a unicorn water elves kit, a kids apron, a visual timer, the Osmo Genius Kit, and one camera to check before you wrap it.

How to Build a Home Gym From the Floor Up (and Cancel the Membership)

How to Build a Home Gym From the Floor Up (and Cancel the Membership)

How to Build a Home Gym From the Floor Up (and Cancel the Membership)Alyssa Givens
Published on: 08/11/2026

Build a home gym from the floor up: padded mats, a weight set, a bench, cardio, recovery and the one big piece worth saving for.

Splurge-Worthy Finds: The Big-Ticket Must-Haves Worth Saving Up For

Splurge-Worthy Finds: The Big-Ticket Must-Haves Worth Saving Up For

Splurge-Worthy Finds: The Big-Ticket Must-Haves Worth Saving Up ForAlyssa Givens
Published on: 08/11/2026

Big-ticket finds worth saving up for: home gym, furniture, kitchen, backyard, laptops and gifts for the maker. Every one over $500.

Blackstone Elk Steak Dinner with Garlic Butter and Crispy Potatoes

Blackstone Elk Steak Dinner with Garlic Butter and Crispy Potatoes

Blackstone Elk Steak Dinner with Garlic Butter and Crispy PotatoesAlyssa Givens
Published on: 07/11/2026

Make a full Blackstone elk dinner with garlic butter top round, crispy Parmesan russet potatoes, mushrooms, onions, and green beans.

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Small Kitchen Fixes Under $25: Stocking Stuffers for the Home Cook

Small Kitchen Fixes Under $25: Stocking Stuffers for the Home Cook

Small Kitchen Fixes Under $25: Stocking Stuffers for the Home CookAlyssa Givens
Published on: 07/11/2026

Four small kitchen tools under $25 for the home cook: Food Huggers, a lemon squeezer, steel scrubbers with a handle and a potato masher. What I saw on video, who each is for.

Deal Hunt: 12 Winter-Ready Deals for Farm and Family

Deal Hunt: 12 Winter-Ready Deals for Farm and Family

Deal Hunt: 12 Winter-Ready Deals for Farm and FamilyAlyssa Givens
Published on: 06/11/2026

This week's Deal Hunt: 12 winter-ready deals for farm and family, checked Nov 6. Heated throws, slippers, a tire inflator, and the heated cat house we use.

Blackstone White Chicken Enchiladas (Crispy, No Oven Needed)

Blackstone White Chicken Enchiladas (Crispy, No Oven Needed)

Blackstone White Chicken Enchiladas (Crispy, No Oven Needed)Alyssa Givens
Published on: 06/11/2026

Creamy green chile white chicken enchiladas made on a Blackstone-style griddle. Crispy tortillas, never soggy, and no oven needed.

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